Saturday, May 20, 2006

How to Manage Loneliness

Loneliness is a state of feeling cut off from and longing for others, due to lack of contact (physically, emotionally, etc.) with people (whether acquaintances, friends, or loved ones). Loneliness is not to be confused with solitude (where a person may appreciate the time to think and reflect without distraction.)

So, for you who feel so lonely, you can take the following action:

Get out from your bedroom

Find another way, not just sleep or watching TV or playing computer alone. You can take deep breath by see new face or new experience around your place. Going to 'ajeb-ajeb' maybe is good idea? ;)
Create New Friends

You know that in everywhere, we can have so many friend if we open minded on cummunication, and open minded on accept new things including friend, in your life.

Communicating With Old Friends

Keep your old friends by always communicating with them. Feel free to take the good way one, e.g. using letter, by phone, SMS, email, etc.

And at the last, if u still lonely, I'm your friend, and you can call me everytime :)

6 comments:

JaF said...

Mas Wahyu, thank God so far I've never been lonely. Perhaps because I'm more of a solitude kind of person.. hehehehehe... Always love being alone..

broer said...

Banyak cara untuk menjadi orang yang tidak 'merasa kesepian'. Walaupun kita kadang-kadang butuh waktu khusus untuk menyendiri, tapi kita dan keseharian kita adalah orang lain dan lingkungan yang tidak akan kita tinggalkan dan kita butuh mereka dan mereka butuh kita. Saat sendiri jadikan sebagai himpunan kekuatan yang mampu mendorong dan mengajak orang lain bangkit dan bahagia saat kita kembali bersama mereka.

Ncris said...

loneliness artinya apaan? lesbi yg sendirian yah? temenin atuh mas, biar ga sendirian trus biar lesbinya sembuh:-) *jayuuussss*

sofia said...

well,kadang loneliness itu asyik juga.. malah hampir semua manusia membutuhkannya.Hanya kalau terus menerus menyendiri itu baru bahaya.Mungkin saya sendiri termasuk diantaranya,yang sudah terbiasa dengan kesendirian.
Lebih dari 2 tahun saya merasakan kesendirian yang kadang hanya bisa ku"balas" dengan kegiatan2 sehingga saya merasa punya "teman".

hedy said...

bener banget mas wahyu...hehehe...kok cara2 ngusir kesepian mirip2 daku yang lagi sekarat cos he's already gone...nangis2 juga kaya orang bodoh...halah....tul banget...dngn menjalin hub dengan banyak temen...qta bakal ngerasa sebenarnya qta gak kesepian kok....banyak yang sayang n perhatian dengan qta..tul gak?....sooooo..........semangat....caiyo....hehehe...sambil menghibur diri sendiri

Shuvinder said...

Do not know what to know or not to know or how to knwo.
Gods abandoned child.

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